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The name’s CK !!

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What kind of a guy, would call himself ‘CK’. Is that a name, are those initials, does it mean something, is it a nick name? I have gone thru’ a lot of inquistion about my name, that i had spend sometime back writing a small note about it. It may sound egoistic. What sound? It is..its all about me. I have not passed this around to anyone yet, but from now own, if someone asks me about my name, i will simply refer them to, http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-WWo9IuAycK0LTJTillTa?p=2056. I’m sure that will be the last time they will ask about that.

My name, was supposed to be or rather, isΒ  ‘Chembrakalathil Krishna Kumar’. The Chembrakalathil comes from amma’s tharavad name, ‘Chembrakalam’, in Kullapulli, near Shoranur, Kerala. So my name would mean, i am Krishna Kumar, from the house of Chembrakalam. Like most, if not all, malayalee nair families, we too followed the marumakkathayam tradition. This was not about family wealth or style of family living, just stayed with the concept of whose lastname to accept.Β  To me this concept of naming (lastname) sounded, better than most system in the world, simply because ‘motherhood is a fact, and fatherhood is matter of faith’.

They year i was enrolled in school, there was another kid with a similar name, C.K. Krishna Kumar. So to avoid confusion, my father changed my name to ‘C.K. Kumar’, relegating the Krishna to another initial in my name.
Now, Kumar is a very common name in India. Kumar simply means ‘son’. So, Krishna Kumar, would actually mean Krishna’s son. Of course, thanks to the English, most indian names were bastardized so much, that it was ok, to simply name me ‘Kumar’. My class mates, as is common everywhere, quickly started calling people by their first names, so Harish Bashkar became Harish, Ram Kumar became Ram, CK Krishna Kumar became Krishna, and i became CK, because simply Kumar was not an unique enough name to call.

I studied in the same school for another five years, and then had to move schools, to start my 6th std, because Bains only allowed buys until the 5th std. The first day at the new school, i am in a new class, people i have never seen before. Not a single soul i recognize. When the school bell rang indicating interval, i was releaved to come out. Surprise, surprise. There were a bunch of my classmates from my old school, all of them in a different section. But very quickly their presence made me more comfortable, and soon my old name is spread around and i get to be known as CK again.

I had at different moments in my life, wanted to change my name, to something more cool. Govind was a good one and so was Sunil. Because, Amma had mentioned that Sunil was a name that was considered, but dropped. There were other names, i am sure, but i dont remember them now. I think Ram, was one among them. Vijay because Amitabh Bachchan used this name commonly in his movies. This continued till i finised my schooling. Whenever i met a cool dude, or got a new name i liked from a movie i saw, i wanted that name. My name CK, it appeared wasnt good enough for me. The name used at home was something completely different, so this was issue of name was restricted to circle of friends and school.

When i finally quit school to join college, i had a few school friends accompany me, and helped others to associate me with ‘CK’. And my college mates and more school mates were with me in my professional courses that i used to take on the side. By the time, i finished college, i more or less accepted my name. And was no longer shy, to introduce myself as CK. In fact, i would be proud to introduce myself as CK, CK Kumar. Not sure, if that had any impact on people hearing me, but it sure started sound good to me.

But soon i faced a different dilemma, ‘what does CK stand for’ ? Early on, i had no problem answering people and expanding my initials and stating my name. But soon i got tired of this. Specially after landing in the US, where people butchered my full expansion whenever they tried it, and also found it very strange that i had my lastname and first name all screwed up. Soon, i found out that this name became convenient to use. It took some clever thinking and some persuading to get the first credit card, Social Security card etc issued as C.K. Kumar. But once the first new identities and credit card were acquired with this name, it was a breeze after that. I even managed to get the Immigration service in the US to use C.K. Kumar, much to the displeasure of a few officers, after the acquisition of the green card.

I now refer to my self as ‘CK Kumar’, where CK is a name by itself. It stands for nothing, it expands to nothing. I do sometimes sit down and explain to friends, if it ever comes up for discussion, after having had a good or close association. Otherwise, its just CK.

Now, if i only could go after the guy who started branding underwear using the same name !!!

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11 Comments

  1. Maddy says:

    Good to know about CK

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  2. Anonymous says:

    LOL @ last line πŸ™‚

    Well, most of that went over my head, so I’ll just have to take your word for it. I can understand the CK as a full name, though, because that’s how I regard Caghs. Even though it is technically an abbreviation of my full name, it is unique and a name in it’s own right. Plus, there’s less confusion. From time to time, people refer to me as Caughs, which is one mistake. When it comes to my actual name, though, I get Kerry, Carrie-Ann, Kerry-Ann, Karen, and so forth. But Caghs is Caghs. Once people hear the pronounciation, they remember it. It doesn’t sounds like any other name that it can be confused for …

    So yes, the point is I have gone off on a tangent LOL

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  3. Anonymous says:

    Chembra, a shortened version wouldn’t be that hard to remember… but as it goes, you have what you want. I like Krishna too;D. Hey, thanks, I’ve always wondered, but had a feeling you had already gone through all of it before, and probably weren’t too keen on doing it again:D. I like your full name though:). Hope those skivies are comfortable… lol;D!

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  4. ............... says:

    Or How the “J” in Homer J Simpson stands for “Jay”.

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  5. Anonymous says:

    Very interesting blog Chembrakalathil Krishna Kumar!! πŸ˜‰

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  6. CK says:

    thank you all
    Maddy – thanks
    Lisa – fits me ? wonder what you… ‘am sure you meant good πŸ™‚
    Caghs – oh i have had that conversations.. its stands for CK… just CK….yes just CK…. some people tried to spell it as seekay… ha ha ha
    PK – please feel free to call me that… except… i think i’ve been trained to respond to CK, best.
    Amy – oh i didnt know that.
    Vik – πŸ™‚
    Shail – thank you…. one more person wanting to use the full name πŸ™‚

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  7. Anonymous says:

    yey!! I thought it must be something like this, but I never told you ;D

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  8. Anonymous says:

    hey, may be u can sue him coz he is using ur name πŸ™‚

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  9. CK says:

    Anoop – that was my idea… but.. man its takes some time to build a case.

    Lisa – no offense taken πŸ™‚
    Diwakar – thanks man.. i havent been around lately to come visiting.. hope to do soon.
    Janu – wow.. talk about ESP !!! yeah right πŸ™‚

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  10. Anonymous says:

    yo are Ck and Im for one am glad of it. There is no reason to explain yourself!

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  11. Anonymous says:

    … and I continue my tangent by reminding everyone of that age-old question: Why is abbreviation such a long word?

    Haven’t you seen the episode of the Simpsons where Homer discovers his mother was a hippie, and becomes a hippie just after learning what the ‘J’ stood for πŸ˜‰

    I’m not an addict, I’ve just watched almost every episode LOL

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